Sex should be sweaty, steamy and sticky. It should have elements of
passion and intensity. It should be a moment of untamed frenzy coupled
with unbridled excitement and intimacy…
Sound like a familiar fantasy? While sex is great when it turns into
the kind of unbridled passion usually reserved for movies and daytime
soap operas, it’s not always realistic, nor is it always possible, to
achieve. There is, however, one element that’s a little more feasible
to bring into your lovemaking — fun.
I’m not just talking about a role-playing, ear-nibbling,
dirty-talking, laugh-out-loud role in the hay — I’m talking about the
kind of sex that gives you a feeling of intimacy with just the right
touch of playfulness. Exactly how is this achieved, you ask? The answer
is all in the positioning, my friend.
Here are a few sex positions
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revamping the regulars
When fatigue sets in or you’re just not feeling that creative, you
tend to resort back to the “easy,” reliable positions. This is when
routine and eventual boredom can start to take over your relationship —
fun in the bedroom might be the only way to salvage this rut. Try
giving the regular routine a facelift with these new positions.
1- The hitch
Description: You are on all fours facing away from your woman, while she lies on her back with her legs in the air.
Benefits for you: The best part of this position is
that you have total control of how fast, how slow and how rough it
goes. Also, because she gets easy access to your backside, anal stimulation is an easy move to throw into the mix, if you’d like.
Benefits for her: This position mostly looks out
for her best interest. She can maximize stimulation of the vaginal
walls by constricting the muscles in her vagina, or by opening and
closing her thighs. It also facilitates the rubbing of your penis
against her clitoris and, as if that weren’t enough, she gets to lay
back and enjoy the view!
2- The reverse frog squat
Description: Lie on your back with your legs parted, while she leans back with her legs bent close to her body.
Benefits for you: This position lets you lay back
and relax. Try it after a stressful day at the office or a strenuous
workout that makes you way too lazy for lovemaking.
Benefits for her: Not only is she in complete
control in this position, but the angle of penetration can be
incredibly arousing for her. Equally arousing may be the feeling of the
man’s hands caressing her back and sides — a move made simple by this
position.
3- The Boston brute
Description: Your girl lies on her back with her
legs extended in the air. With your back facing her, sit on her thighs,
and he carefully bends your penis down toward her vagina.
Benefits for you: Since positioning the erect
penis downward isn’t something many men can do, you get the sweet
satisfaction of knowing you have an extraordinarily bendable penis.
Once you get over that ego-trip, you can enjoy a relaxing lower-back massage during sex.
Benefits for her: The angle of penetration can be
stimulating for her, and she also might like the fact that you have the
freedom to caress her thighs.
4- The merry mandolin
Description: While she lies on her side, bending
both knees to her chest, you position yourself behind her, extending
one leg behind her back and the other between her legs.
Benefits for you: The thrusts are shallow, but it
allows you a great amount of control. So, go fast, go slow, go crazy!
You’ll probably also really enjoy the new angle of penetration.
Benefits for her: She’ll love the fact that you can reach over and manually stimulate her clitoris at the same.
up for the challenge
When you’re both in the mood for something really out of the
ordinary, you may want to give these positions a try. They may call for
some acrobatic, contortionist moves, but they’re sure to raise the
element of fun during sex.
5- Othello’s back groove
Description: Balance yourself on a chair, with your
feet at the corner of the base and your arms holding onto the back. Get
her to approach the front of the chair and lean forward with her hands
on her knees.
Benefits for you: While your position might be a
little uncomfortable, you do have complete control of the movement and
you get a great visual of the action, which is also very arousing.
Benefits for her: As with all the other rear-entry
positions, the angle of penetration may be stimulating for her. Also,
if you’ve got the whole balance thing down and you’re feeling brave
enough to hold on with one hand, she might enjoy some anal stimulation, if she’s into that sort of thing.
What you need to pull this off: Strong arms and
legs and great balance. This move reminds me a little of the trust
game, where you fall back and pray that the person behind you has high
enough moral standards not to let you plummet to the ground. Similarly,
she really needs to trust your level of strength because if your arms
or legs give out, not only can you hurt yourself, but the “ouch” factor
is severely elevated for her.
Take flight, defy gravity.
6- Superhero’s delight
Description: While she grabs the sides of a high
stool, you place your hands under her waist and lift her off the
ground. She, then, wraps her legs around your waist for extra support.
Benefits for you: Once again, you get complete control of movement, as well as a great view of her backside.
Benefits for her: She lucks out again with the arousing angle of penetration.
What you need to pull this off: Make sure she’s light enough to hold into the air, or make sure you’re strong enough to support her (whatever her weight may be). We wouldn’t want any accidental droppings — this is supposed to be fun, remember?
7- Zero gravity
Description: She lies with her shoulders on the
chair and her head leaning off the side. You stand upright, supporting
her hips with your hands, as her legs are extended onto your shoulders.
Benefits for you: You’re the dominant
one in this position, so control the movements as you see fit. Also,
because her legs are closed, this might make penetration feel a little
more snug than usual.
Benefits for her: If you can support her properly with one arm, she’ll love the fact that you can massage her clitoris at the same time.
What you need to pull this off: Make sure she’s not easily nauseated. The bobbing upside-down view can start to make her feel uncomfortable.
Source for further reading
Strovny, David, AskMen.com Nov.12, 2009
Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov. 12, 2009
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